In the middle of the summer trainings, one of our students asked me the following question: why do you spend so much time writing articles for the NLPCoaching website? So I had to think a little.
And then, in order to answer him I had to ask myself another question: who am I writing these articles for? Is it myself? Am I writing these articles like taking a “selfie” of my mind and putting it on the website, and after optimize it with the best seo company uk so it reaches the more people possible. Or am I writing these articles for you?
Here is what I came to tell this man.
My articles are for those who want more than to complain about how bad it is – those who want to change things around for the better but are not sure whether they can.
My articles for those who are thirsty for knowledge.
My articles are for those who want to penetrate through the mysteries of their own minds and use it for their benefit. I write for the people wanting to become conscious – the doers of the world.
My articles want to tell you that you have undiscovered gifts and talents, capacities and abilities which you are not aware of yet.
My articles are for self-reliance, to get out of dogma, and for those who want sound thinking and logical interpretations of circumstances.
My articles are for individual empowerment – I want to tell you that no matter how bad the situation in your life is you can turn that around.
My articles are for the freedom of the mind to create new avenues for success.
My articles are for those who simply are tired of “lack” and want prosperity instead.
My articles are for all those who need to leave behind personal limitations of unfulfilled expectations.
As crazy as this sounds, I write to tell you that you actually can Create Your Future and to show you how to do it.
My articles are to tell you that you are special in your own way and that your mind is your most precious asset if you use it to its maximum capacity. Like a puppy your mind behaves as you train it. It can be your most precious friend, or, left untrained, it can become your most serious enemy and even bite you.
There are plenty of articles on the internet whose purpose is to encourage you. One thing is missing though in most of them and that is the how-to-do-it.
One of the things that stands out about NLP (check out here the scientific study about NLP’s effectiveness), Time Line Therapy® and Hypnosis techniques is that they give you the how to change things. First you do this, then you do that, look to the right look to the left, where is the emotion? That’s right, it disappeared!
All right, I admit, that was not NLP, but Time Line Therapy®, however the same thing is true for all NLP techniques. First you discover what you do in your head. Then you learn how to change that which is not producing the results you want.
Say you have a strategy that makes you stuck. Every time you want to proceed with a change in your life, you get stuck. Think of it; what if you can change that strategy and instead of feeling stuck and unable to proceed, you get motivated to take action and succeed?
Say you are permanently conflicted and don’t know what decision to take. Shall I go this way? Shall I go that way? Parts integration (which is one of the techniques of NLP) does just that: integrates conflicts, so you can take a coherent decision with certainty and dynamism.
Yes, you heard many times people telling you, “Don’t think this way, don’t think that way, it’s wrong!” only to ponder for yourself: “,how on earth shall I not do that? I think this way and they’re telling me it’s wrong. Maybe they’re right, but how shall I change what’s going on in my mind?”
This is what this field of four interconnected disciplines is all about. NLP, Time Line Therapy®, Hypnosis and NLP Coaching (at least the way we teach them) are all based on practical applications. We give you the how-to-do-that-change-you-always-wanted-but-did-not-know-how.
Our website, our trainings, articles and VidChats are not for those who want to blame some-thing or some-one for all their misfortunes. I feel for them, since holding grudge hurts them more than those they hold the grudge against, but at the same time I do not sympathize with those who argue for their limitations. I am not on the side of professional victims and I do not subscribe to victimhood. I have seen victims of terrible events pick themselves up and create happy lives for themselves and I have also seen people far less battered by life who stayed in the victim position and lead unhappy lives. I write for those who in spite what they were dealt take responsibility in their own hands and learn how to change that which is wrong.
This field is for those who figure out that what they’re doing has brought them thus far but not any further and for those who are willing to stop the “cannot do anything about anything” attitude.
So I recognized that I write for the people who come to the realization that they have a hand on how they experience life, and are willing to find the answers inside themselves.
I write for people who are tired of waiting for answers from others and who are willing to take action and change their lives all by themselves.
I write for people who can think clearly, who sense that life is an adventure-play written by themselves.
And I write for people who want to leave a mark on this planet. Who want to do good for themselves, their families, and their communities. I write for those who want to be involved in actively transforming the planet and make it into a better place for all of us.
Ultimately I write for you, the reader of this article. That’s right-you!
Be well,